Dance club field trip.
Jul. 1st, 2003 07:41 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Friday night after dinner at Syprina's ex-house, people wanted to go to Matrix, a club in the Theatre district downtown. I honestly can't remember the last time I'd been to a non-goth/industrial club ("What kind of music do you play?" "Why, we got everything, Goth and Industrial!") so this sounded like a wonderfully opportunity for an anthropological foray. Whoa boy was it ever. Matrix is one room of hip-hop, another room of housey techno, hot and crowded with kids who look like the people in dance clubs you see on MTV or E!'s Wild On Annoying Frat Parties shows. Girls in halter tops and tight pants, guys in short sleeved button up shirts and jeans or slacks. Pumped up hardbodies. Tans.
Must be because I'm used to ManRay and Ceremony where everyone knows everyone else and everybody likes everybody else (I know, I know. Just work with me, ok?) but it seemed that at Matrix people weren't having very much fun. Not a whole lot of animated facial expressions…I dunno it's hard to explain. It looked like people were holding themselves behind this narrow-gazed emotional wall that kept them from laughing and having a good time. Maybe I'm just tuned to a different set of body language cues, but the whole thing seemed kinda wrong and uncomfortable. Which is not to say that it wasn't fun, it was really amusing to be immersed in a foreign environment for a night, and hanging out with Syprina's friends is a total riot.
Must be because I'm used to ManRay and Ceremony where everyone knows everyone else and everybody likes everybody else (I know, I know. Just work with me, ok?) but it seemed that at Matrix people weren't having very much fun. Not a whole lot of animated facial expressions…I dunno it's hard to explain. It looked like people were holding themselves behind this narrow-gazed emotional wall that kept them from laughing and having a good time. Maybe I'm just tuned to a different set of body language cues, but the whole thing seemed kinda wrong and uncomfortable. Which is not to say that it wasn't fun, it was really amusing to be immersed in a foreign environment for a night, and hanging out with Syprina's friends is a total riot.
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Date: 2003-07-01 05:14 am (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2003-07-01 08:05 am (UTC)yeah, but we'd have to do a few scorpion bowls first though.
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Date: 2003-07-01 08:20 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2003-07-01 05:50 am (UTC)(btw, thanks for the elk on saturday!)
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Date: 2003-07-01 08:53 am (UTC)Cheers on the elk. It wasn't horse, but it was pretty good anyway.
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Date: 2003-07-01 07:27 am (UTC)I don't know if the kids I hung out were representative of the scene, but they did seem to know everyone at the club, at least in that jetset small world sense. "oh yeah, that's Hae Sun, she went to Andover at the same time I was at Hotchkiss. Goes to Wellesley now. Dad's a big exec at some chaebol back in Seoul, played golf with my dad."
Fun bunch to hang out with, but we always had these feeling that we were sort of mutually slumming in each other's turf.
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Date: 2003-07-01 09:16 am (UTC)